Hi, my name is Carol, I am a 34 year old mother from Sydney's South West. My son was diagnosed with XXYY Syndrome when he was 3 years old. He is now 10 years old. 

He was a beautifully placid, happy baby. The only real concern for the doctors was that he was born with clubfeet. So every time he didn't meet a milestone the doctors would assume it was due his extended time in plasters, or being 'a boy' and/or being 'lazy'. But I knew there was more going on. I was not going to stop until I got an answer. Drs kept telling me he was fine because he would look them in the eye and draw them a picture. I now realise they were only really looking for Autism which he doesn't have. He was so friendly with everyone even though he couldn't speak in sentences until he was 5 years old. When I finally changed paediatricians, I got his diagnosis. Did I grieve the son I thought I would have, yes, of course. But I am so very grateful for the son I do have. He is funny, kind, caring, brave, strong and a big sweet teddy bear. I love him more than I could possibly imagine. But do we have tough times, yes ABSOLUTELY. I could write a book and fill it with some tales!  I want to reach any aussie parents out there who have had their son recently (or not so recently) diagnosed who would like to make contact with me.

I know the fog we can sometime walk around in. But sometimes sharing your story can help someone else, that is my aim.